It is a fact that children learn, cooperate, and do better with those around them when they feel calm and safe. But how can we intervene when these conditions are absent? What do we do when, in our attempt to convey messages of responsibility, right and wrong, empathy, they react or insist on a defensive stance? What happens when our efforts to encourage or motivate them seem to have no effect? What do we do when we are faced with a child or teenager who repeats problematic behavior? How do we keep our composure when we feel our patience is running out? This book responds to the desire of many educators and parents to be supportive, to frame and set boundaries correctly, without becoming authoritarian, submissive, and pressuring. The 3Step is an approach that bypasses many difficulties: it helps adults cultivate children's judgment while showing them how to guide them to build their character. At the same time, children gain mental resilience and a good relationship with themselves and others.