"[...] Our position reflects the desire not to be so naive as to think we can change all the problems our clients face, but at the same time not to fall into the trap of cynicism, believing we can do nothing when faced with difficult problems. Instead, to have the freedom to take action. To somehow manage to survive the devastation and disappointment that inevitably occur at times when facing life's tragedies. To manage to keep going and not lose hope, to be able to find humor in the absurdity of seemingly impossible situations. Preserving our capacity for enthusiasm and excitement, even if we sometimes fail. This book was an attempt to describe some of our strategies for survival." Cecchin, Lane, Ray "This book is a valuable contribution for every therapist, but also for every reader, because it offers alternative ways for relationships, both in the context of a therapeutic setting and in everyday life, to become more flexible and more interesting."